ABOUT ALEXANDER
A life shaped by love & murder
Alexander Love's work was forged in the alchemical fire of murder. At twenty years old, he lost his father to gun violence, an experience that became the beginning of a lifelong inquiry into suffering, meaning, and the possibility of genuine transformation. What emerged from that fire became the foundation of his approach — a weaving together of shadow work, developmentally informed coaching, and Eastern wisdom traditions.
His work helps us learn to turn toward suffering and tragedy from a ground of wholeness, enabling every aspect of the human experience to become a catalyst for meaningful change.
"The more intimate we become with the divide that comes with being human, including the pain and friction, the sooner we will fall through the veil of fracture into the fabric of wholeness that shapes those broken lines. To touch broken wings with an unbroken heart is to awaken the gifts within tragedy."
Alexander Love
Evolutionary Gestures Trilogy
Alexander M. Love is an internationally recognized facilitator, coach, and acupuncturist whose work lives at the intersection of human development, contemplative wisdom, and deep transformational work. He is a Master Certified Coach through the ICF, Director of Curriculum Development and Senior Facilitator at Newfield Network, and a certified STAGES scorer with Stages International. He holds a master's degree in acupuncture from the Academy for Five Element Acupuncture.
He is the creator of the Lumina Process — a path of transformation that has opened new dimensions of freedom and wholeness for people across the world. Over two decades, he has facilitated more than fifteen thousand hours of life-changing work with individuals and groups. He lives in Boulder, Colorado, with his family.
A FORMATIVE EVENT
"At the age of twenty, Alexander lost his father to an act of gun violence."
That event cracked him open and became the foundation of a life devoted to understanding suffering and what lives on the other side of tragedy — the post-tragic chapters of our lives.
Years later, he entered into a restorative justice dialogue with the man responsible for his father's death — an experience that revealed the power of love and forgiveness.
BEHIND THE WORK
Two decades of practice.
Two decades of sitting with people in their deepest suffering has confirmed one thing above all else: love heals. And beneath every wound, every pattern, every form of suffering, something remains unbroken. Alexander has found that human beings can awaken to this unbroken dimension of being and discover infinite creativity, compassion, and the power to heal. From this ground, real transformation is not only possible — it is a lived reality.
His meditation practice, sustained for more than twenty-five years — has been the ground beneath all of it. That devotion has opened him to something that no framework or methodology could: the sacred dimension of existence itself, and the unbroken nature of being that lives beneath every human story.
Alexander believes we are, ultimately, an unfathomable mystery — and that a central gift of living is to lean into that mystery, to touch the soul of the artist within us, and to discover the intrinsic beauty woven into the fabric of existence.
CURRENT WORK
Writings at the Living Edge
Alexander is currently writing The Evolutionary Gestures Trilogy, which weaves developmental theory and Eastern philosophy with memoir and magical realism. The first volume, Awakening the Post-Tragic Dawn, is coming early 2027.
"We stand together nestled in a liminal bridge. Almost sleeping. Hovering. Silent screams can be heard from every velvet heart. Our cries overshadow the untouched and incorruptible light. In place of that brightness is the sense that we had all eaten stones, a weight only known by those who have been burdened by slaughter."
-Excerpt from Evolutionary Gestures Volume I
LINEAGES & TRAINING
Where the work comes from.
Alexander's approach is shaped by the teachers, traditions, and training organizations he has been formed by over the past twenty years.
Two ways to work with Alexander.
Whether you're drawn to a structured group training or to focused one-to-one work, there is a place to begin.
GROUP TRAINING
The Lumina Process
A developmentally informed parts work modality offered in cohort form. Level I opens once a year as the entry point for both personal transformation and the practitioner pathway.
ONE-TO-ONE
Work With Alexander
Developmentally informed coaching grounded in the Lumina Process, ontological coaching, and Chinese medicine. A limited number of spaces are available for individuals ready for deep, sustained work.